We’re all struggling with something.
Some struggles are “easy” to share, while others are just a little bit harder.
But thank God for online.
As all of you know, some of us struggle with same-sex attraction just like others struggle with a number of other sins. As a Christianity Today article points out:
At its root, homosexuality is no different than any common struggle. We have all experienced sexual temptation and tried to meet emotional needs in unhealthy ways. The similarities in our trials far outweigh the differences.
The article goes on to say that “transparency” is one of the keys of ministry in this area, and in addition:
Thus, ministering to same-sex attracted people is easier than you might expect.
Friendship is the best way to demystify the issue. Try taking someone who struggles out to lunch, visiting an ex-gay support group, or befriending a gay activist and hearing her story.
That’s why I think the online medium and social networking is truly a godsend in terms of how we use it to engage with those struggling with sins like these (and many many others).
The online medium provides the ability to engage, without hostility or fear, with people who are struggling with these types of issues and begin to establish relationships with them. As “anonymity” gives way to “transparency” we can begin to see people’s lives impacted.
It’s my hope that my blogs are places where every person, regardless of struggle, can come and connect with others who are interested in using technology for ministry.
How “safe” is your blog for discussion about topics like same-sex attraction? Is it a channel that engenders friendship or animosity? How are you ministering to this particular struggle?
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Jonathanj says
Honestly, I'm not doing anything in particular to attract these people groups on my blog. While everyone is welcomed to engage in the topics, I don't necessarily think these certain peoples are interested in what I write.
I have seen people with this life style enter my church doors. I was hoping to engage in conversation and just befriend them, but as they were walking through the crowd, all I had time to say was, "Hey, thanks for coming out." Hopefully they will return.
Anna Meadows says
Interesting topic and post… I think it is cool when a blog can be a place of ministry. I would say mine is definatly that, but in a different sense than what you’re saying. People often share thier struggles and where they fall short (if the topic lends itself to such comments) I think the most important ingrediant to make this happen is personal transparency…
Jim says
uh,i welcome everyone.